SynSational Speaks.....

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

I Want No Part of this Crap

I'm going to get straight to the point on this one. I've said before I want a relationship, blah, blah, blah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Well this isn't about me today. LOL

It's about my crazy ass friends. Like I said, straight to the point. My best friend...love her to death...but man, right now, she's getting on my nerves. She's never been one to have serious relationships for real. We've been best friends for 18 years, and yes, she's had boyfriends, but they weren't anything serious, then she hooked up with her daughters father and that was her first serious relationship. They were together, um, about 5 years, I say. She got rid of that loser, and she used to always complain that she doesn't think it's possible to have true love, etc, etc. I would always be the one like, yeah, I still believe in it, I'm not giving up. She would always say, Man, damn that, it ain't happening. Yeah, ok, whatever, you aren't crushing what I believe in.

One of our close friends who has been feeling her for a long time (I'm talking about 10 years plus maybe?) finally got a hold of her and they saw each other after 7 years. How about they all lovey dovey now. First she was playing him to the left in high school and after we graduated, now, she's all into him. He's a good man...accepts her child, has a good job, stability, homeowner, is really into her, wants a future with her. I mean, ol' boy is REALLY into her, has been forever, and now that he finally has her, he isn't trying to let her go. Whatever she wants, he's there. He's a good catch, especially since he's been wanting her all this time. I've been wanting them to get together for awhile, now they are in a SERIOUS relationship. Now, tell me why I think my girl is going to mess this up. Why is she about to let a jump-off mess up her future? Hell if I know. She has this jump-off she used to kick it with for a minute, and they fell off for whatever reason. When she got with her present man, jump-off starts flirting with her again. Isn't this how it always happens? M'kay.

Yeah, so the memories of what they used to do are lingering in her head and she's basically tempted. So she tells me she was on the phone with him for a good while the other day and she's thinking of going there one more time. So, I tell her, ok, um, you say your man is giving it to you good, right? She says, yeah, but with this dude it's a different kind of good. I say, ok, I understand that, but, why potentially mess up something good just for a jump-off? In my head, I'm thinking you aren't ready for someone who's serious about you...you just aren't. You can't have both. She's like, how is my man going to find out. I tell her, things happen, crap backfires...trust me. Don't do it. I'm like, you finally have that person you have been waiting for, someone who's good for you and your child and you are about to risk it for a jump-off that you just want to sex up? M'kay. I've told her before not to go there, but man, I think she is...it's out of my hands...the thing is, I've been friends with her man (he's related by marriage) for as long as I've been her best friend. So we are tight, and I hate to see her do him like this. So, if she does, I'm going to tell her when she makes the decision, don't tell me. Seriously. Cause she's wrong and if it comes out that I knew about it, it could blow up in my face and have people pissed at me. I know what you all are thinking, it's on her, but for real, he's my boy/family, and I don't want any part of it. Best friend or not.

I know she's going to go there...man, I know she is. **sigh**

I'll write about my other friend tomorrow cause she needs a whole blog to her damn self.

Get at me....

Posted by SynSational :: 9:17 AM :: 4 comments